I haven't blogged in a month. This is really not like me. This past week, I got to thinking why it is I don't consistently blog like I used to! Here's the deal...
I feel like the blogging atmosphere is changing. My blog friend, PIPM, blogged a few weeks back asking her readers what they want to hear! I feel like maybe I should do the same. My blog got all of it's readership when I was wedding planning and obviously had a ton of content to write about. I now feel like I am not sure what to write about and sort of feel like my life and blog posts would be boring to all of you!
I am not a fashion blogger
I am not a crafty DIYer
I am not a creative Pinterester
I am not planning a wedding
I am not pregnant
I am not a mommy blogger
I am not a coupon queen
What do I write about on a day-in, day-out basis now? That's really the crux as to why I haven't been consistent.
Another reason relates back to this post when I said I've had a really hard struggle finding friends. Not just silly "let's get dinner" acquaintances.... but real, legit friends. It's been hard to purge some relationships I have made while here so far, but I've had to just keep giving it to God knowing that he will provide the right kinds of people to invest my limited time into. Luckily, and thankfully, I have found an amazing small group through my church and I am trying to get more involved there. I don't sit alone in church anymore, which is awesome!
All to say that I feel like my life is still in a teeter-totter motion..... goes one way then the next. And I just don't feel like dragging all my readers through the wild ruckus! Know what I mean? My current life isn't cookie cutter.... I don't go home and cook up recipes for my doting boyfriend of husband..... I don't stroll my baby around in a park all day or have mommy parties.
I am single... I work constantly...and I am about to live alone again. I am sort of in this in-between stage of not knowing who I am or what I am supposed to be doing. I'm tired of society (correction -- southern society) placing this cultured timeline on me. On the contrary, what's a blog without posting pictures of your family or baby? I don't do fashion either, so I am a bit at a loss for words.
So, I am just going to pretend I have no audience. I don't care if you chose to read or not.... it may be boring... just a forewarning, but I am not just going to STOP blogging just because I don't depict what the status quo of a blogger should be. Ya, of course one day it will transition back to family, or planning a life with someone, recipes, etc., but ya know what? It's just not me right now.
So..... ya.
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I think we all struggle with this on many occasions. Even those that haves blogging niche. Just be you! Maybe write about your new transition. :)
ReplyDeleteBlog about whatever you want! The people who are still here obviously enjoy what you have to say :) As for myself, I always enjoyed your fitness Friday. I liked the posts about what exercise you were doing or what you were eating. Stuff like that. Also, the activities in the city or travel are always interesting. I live in a small country town so a glimpse into the city life is neat.
ReplyDeleteI write for myself - if others read thats wonderul as i love the blogging community - but for me, it is my life and my thoughts. :) I love your blog just for what it is.
ReplyDeleteI completely understand where you are coming from and I actually have felt the same way for awhile now. I no longer fit with a particular blog group, which is fine with me, but I am wondering what my readers are expecting out of me. I have continued to blog about my boring life and I don't really care if anyone reads it or comments. I used to blog because I liked the feeling of being popular and reading dozens of comments on something as superficial as Happy Friday!. Now, I just do it so I can remember the details of my life. I'm glad that you are going to continue blogging because you know what? It's your blog (and life), not anyone else's and you can write whatever you want!!!
ReplyDeleteHey girl! Your blog helped me start my own blog! I am not momma to be, fashionista, etc either! Just write about what you want to write about and there will be readers! I promise!
ReplyDeleteI hear you chica! I struggle with that sometimes too. I am not a die-hard couponer or deal girl, but then my blog is all about all that 20/30-something life entails with budget-friendly ideas. Sometimes that is almost *too* broad, you know? I will hang with you, if you hang with me! Keep it up!!
ReplyDeleteI completely understand where you are coming from! I started blogging a few years ago and fell off the bandwagon when my material didn't suit a particular nichè. I've just started again (just!) and like you, want to post just 'how it is!'
ReplyDeleteLove reading...even if it is 'boring' material!
I understand exactly where you are coming from! I started blogging several years ago and fell off the bandwagon since I didn't quite fit into a certain niche. I have just (just!) started blogging again and hope to post what and when I feel like it...even if it does seem boring!
ReplyDeleteLOVE reading...Keep posting, even if it does seem 'boring'!
I think this is the best type of blogging. Just be yourself. That's what I enjoy reading!!
ReplyDeleteI completely feel you, I'm the same! No husband, no fiance, no kids. I'm about to graduate and my days consist of teaching little 4th graders and I'm pretty sure no one wants to know about how many times I tell them to be quiet! I've decided to just be myself and blog about what I enjoy and I'm glad you're doing the same! I've been reading since you were engaged and I love your blog! Keep your head up, God has a reason for your blog!
ReplyDeleteI've been reading your blog for years, and always enjoyed it. Many of the topics I've loved have included food/fitness posts, dating and your struggle to find friends as a adult (I hear you on that one!) Possible topics could include the single scene in Atlanta, trips you've taken in the area, decorating your house, going out on the weekends, reviews of favorite products (I love your hair and make-up looks), favorite books, goals for the next year, etc. Hopefully, you'll be blogging more in the future! :)
ReplyDeleteGood for you, Britt! You know I'm here!
ReplyDeleteYou should blog about what you like and how are you are feeling. Certainly don't be someone else! Maybe it'd be fun to tell silly stories about dates you go on or what happened to you that day at work?!
ReplyDeleteI'm kinda of the same way. Young, single, thriving professional. Other than working out and family stuff...i really don't have much to blog about. I honestly love just reading about your work out stuff and your fabulous work/social life in the ATL :)
ReplyDeleteI think the best posts are the ones that are written without an audience in mind. Blogging should be about you, you are the author after all. Keep writing because your followers started reading for a reason :)
ReplyDeleteOh I have been a reader a long time and think you should just blog bout your current life- pics of what you do & eat, travels, your opinions, working out, your fun city (I'd love to hear more about atl), your job, etc... I prefer the random, maybe bc that's what I blog about to ;)
ReplyDeletepeople who blog to please others are so boring and you can tell they are fake! You should just stay true to yourself, blog about whatever the heck you want to blog about and that will be good enough!
ReplyDeletexo,
ashley
I'm on the same boat as you! I honestly feel like my life is not interesting to blog about, and I just end up blogging random things. I hate it! I wish I was more creative and had a more interesting life
ReplyDeleteTotallt agree with so many of your readers, blog as if you dont have a audience. Its a community and we all share our experiences and life and whatever happy or sad is happening at the moment. I read your posts because your happy, succesful and funny and write heartfelt posts ..
ReplyDeleteHi sweet girl, just wanted to share a little encouragement your way. Even though I fall into a very different category in life these days -- married and expecting, co-owning an event company and working out of my home these days -- I've always really enjoyed your blog and following your life and career. Mostly because you are on the very track I planned to be on for a long time -- and LOVED! I've always been super independent and career-focused. Love my marketing and communications background (still do freelance projects, and almost took a second job back in corp. comm until I found out I was pregnant -- and subsequently became very sick.) In other words, I admire your zeal and knowledge in the field, and love hearing what you're up to on your career path! :-) There is NOTHING wrong with the place you are in, and I'm honestly happy for you that you're getting this time to enjoy time for YOU right now. Things change very fast on the other side, and while I wouldn't trade where God has me right now for anything (I am so blessed and thankful) I also have struggled with the limits that come with it and do miss the fast pace of life before. AND...I miss getting to work out at my old pace -- ha. Already planning a fit routine (which includes training for a half-marathon!) after the baby arrives. :-) Ok, this is turning into a book -- I apologize. This is what happens when you're pregnant and can't sleep. :-) Keep up the amazing work, and never doubt for a second God's amazing plan for your life -- or your worth to anyone else. :-) I'm excited to follow you! AND...if you're ever in my neck of the woods, let me know!
ReplyDeleteIMHO a blog should be written just for you, no one else. When you reflect back 2 years from now on the post that you wrote they can give you insight on where you were and what you were going through. For me I don't write about anything fascinating I don't have a lot of followers and yet I've made really awesome friendships through my blog. Here's to finding your own voice and enjoying your blog again!
ReplyDeleteI think you're brave for putting that out there. You should blog about whatever you want!
ReplyDeletei can relate to some of your frustration. I am not a mom, not a fashion or food blogger, I have no real niche, so I too at times find myself just staring at the blank screen and feeling like I have nothing of substance to say. it's disheartening. but i do find that I am opinionated about things and like to share the way I see certain scenarios, maybe that is something you would be interested in sharing as well.
ReplyDeleteI enjoy reading!
ReplyDeleteHave you checked Kelly's Korner blog? She did a post on "show us your singles". I'm not sure if there are any in your area but that could be something to write about too!
Chin up sweet girl and blog about the day to day things that fill your time in Atlanta ... new restaurants or favorite coffee spot you tried, fitness and food, the skies the limit! Don't stop bloggin ....
ReplyDeleteah but i look forward to reading more xxx
ReplyDeleteOh please keep blogging! I have the most fun reading the blogs that aren't so "Specific" and "Planned". Lets be serious - in the real world, we don't all have a camera crew, hours to photoshop pictures of ourselves, and millions of dollars to spend on couture! Keep up the great work!
ReplyDeleteYou are right...the "timeline" thing is very Southern! You are the norm in many other places - so I hope you don't feel alone. I love reading your blog. And honestly, the blogs I LOVE to read are because they are HONEST. That's what draws me in. I have unfollowed so many women/blogs because all they like to do is paint a perfect picture of their life - when in reality, we all know it just can't be. People will really connect to you if you're absolutely raw on here (just my opinion). And I know that's hard! But when you DO get all that you've hoped for, people will be SO happy to follow along because they were rooting for you in the worst way. I hope you just tell it like it is and keep us updated. Another idea...try online dating and tell us about your dating adventures! I had to say that because I met my husband on Match a few years ago. I read your blog and it reminds me of myself. Not that you "need a man", but it would be fun! And you never know what might come of it :) GOOD LUCK!!
ReplyDeleteBrittany,
ReplyDeleteThe REASON I found your blog and kept reading was because you're just you. Your identity isn't based on a man, a baby or clothes. While I live with my boyfriend (in sin - no ring!) I'm still only a mama to 2 little dogs and I'm pretty happy with that for the time being. I'm glad you're not giving up. I love your blog!
love this post. :) Congrats on your new job by the way!
ReplyDeleteLove this post! Congrats on the new job by the way!
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